Super Sunday Sync

Linking up with the girls over at Super Sunday Sync! Have a good week everyone!

Sunday Social

Hello!!!
I haven't done one of these for awhile and I've gotta say the introductions are always a favorite.
1. What is the name of your blog? I have 2 blogs. The first one I started is Reprogramming The Mind, I came up with it because I am in the process of changing the way I think. I feel like it's to long but I can't find anything else that really fits me and what I mainly want to blog about. The 2nd is Magical Writings, it is strictly poetry, and well the way my words flow onto paper is utterly magical. (At least to me)

2. What do you love most about blogging? I love expressing myself however I want without the fear the person (in front of me) will judge. Millions of people can see this and a few will comment and even less will criticize me. I do this for me, so I can look back at my memories.

3. Why did you start blogging?

I started blogging to basically have an online directory of my journal. However that quickly changed as I decided to be more specific in what I'm writing. The longer my blog gets, the more specific I try to be. I'm just not there yet. I hope to figure it out soon.

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4. What is something you'd want to tell someone just starting out in the blog world? Blog about your hearts desire. Also read up on blogging, all the best ways to get yourself out there, and all the cool fun things you can do, like contests, conferences, sponsoring,  co-hosting and whatever else there is. I'm just now learning those things and I feel lost. Blog because it's the awesome, cool thing to do that can't even harm you.

5. Biggest blogging learning experience you've had? It's not as easy as it looks or sounds.

6. What are three blogs you love? World of Psychology A Complete Waste of Makeup Fantastically Average - which I cannot read anymore so the tie breaker with her is Ashley Lately (they were my 1st two personal blogs)

Your turn! Answer the questions! Have an awesome week!

Super Sunday Sync

Hey I'm Jesyka and I found this super cool blog hop today. I'm going to link up with Dawn's Disaster and Nugget on a Budget and Mail 4 Rosey. Glad I found you girls, can't wait to discover and meet you 2 and a few more. Thanks for stopping by, please follow and leave me a comment about who you are and where you follow from and I'll return the favor. Have a blessed week!

Monday Mingling

Hello ladies, my name is Jesyka and I am linking up with Monday Mingling. I have been away for awhile and when I got back on last week I realized my normal link-up had disappeared so this week I decided to try another.
Lets see, what can I tell you about me? I am 30 something, live in southeastern OH, small town girly-o. I am into fixing computers, candle making, mixing essential oils, scrap-booking (although, it's been a long time), poetry and studying Psychology and Aromatherapy.

My blog is essentially to share my experience, strength and hope with others hoping that someone will find the right advice they may need, or just for them to know they are not alone. I have 3 different mental health issues that I deal with daily and I am also a recovering addict. I just want to share my story. Other than that I like linking-up and blogging about normal life experiences such as recipes, things I love, and my favorite one - how I lost weight! I also have newer blog for my poetry. I post one each week, so please check it out also if you like poetry.

And that is my introduction, now you know a lot about me and I can't wait to learn a lot about you. Join in on Monday Mingling!

Sunday Social

Good Day Everyone!!!

It's Jesyka and today is Sunday and I'm here linking up with Ashley and Neely for:

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1. What is something you've always wanted to do but are afraid of?

I have always wanted to water ski. Looks like so much fun but I'm honestly afraid of being that far out in deep water. :-(

2. Where do you see yourself in five years?

In 5 years, anywhere better than here. Likely to be starting a new career, but who knows where life will lead me. I tend to go with the flow of life's forces.

3. What are you looking forward to before the end of 2013?

Being skinny again. I'm where I wanted to be, early so now for the next 4 months I want to drop 10 more pounds.

4. What are your hopes for your blog?

I hope that I will gain more friends and write better posts.

5. Do you always see yourself living in your current town/city?

Actually I am in the midst of planning a move sometime soon, hopefully by the end of the year. And then I plan on making that town my official home for life. Although if a great opportunity arose, I might just jump on it.

Chillicothe, OH Yoctangee Park (Source city-data.com)

6. What is your morning routine?

Routine? What routine. That's something I need to get.
I wake up, get water, smoke (gross), make tea, take a  shower, get dressed, drink tea and check email, Facebook and Words with Friends and text my baby Good Morning, do make-up and go on about my day. 

Thanks for reading more about me, link up so I can read about you! Have a lovely week.

Sunday Social ~ FASHION FORWARD

It's Sunday morning, time for Sunday Social with Ashley and Neely. If you have never linked up before now is the time to join in because admit it, you are a woman and you love to shop. Personally I'd rather order online but it's all the same.

1. What is your favorite store to shop at?

It was always Dillard’s but we don’t have one around here so the next best thing is Kohl’s and they always have a sell and Kohl’s cash which makes them that much better.

2. If you could afford anything and everything, which designer brand would you covet?

I would have to say I’d probably have every single Coach bag. I love them.

3. What is your must have closet staple?

I have more tank tops than anything else. I like the ones with built in bras and I wear them with or without other shirts.

4. What is your favorite kind of shoes? (brand or type)

This one is hard for me because I LOVE SHOES. But honestly the only types I wear are flip-flops, wedgies or platforms and I go boot crazy in the winter. My favorite heels right now are from Chinese Laundry, they are so comfortable.

5. What is the best clothing deal you've ever gotten? (sale or amazing find)

I go to the sell rack before anything so I always get good deals. I like to maximize my money with a closet full of clothes.

6. What is a style you'd love to try?

Sometimes I wish I was girly enough or have a job where I could dress to impress every day. I mean I usually impress but I would like to be glamorous. 

 So that's my faves, what are yours? If you link-up leave a comment and let me know so I can read yours. It's the beginning of summer so get outside now and enjoy it. :)

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YAY!!! OMG I did it, 1 down and 1 to go!!!
I'm so stickin proud of myself, lol.

Thanks to these blogs for publishing directions:
http://morefromyourblog.com Zach didn't even have a grab button but he has a great blog.

Ugly People Online...and I don't mean looks.

Have you ever felt this way? I'm sure everyone has at one time or another, in one form or another.

You say, 'what could you ever mean?, there's different forms?' Well yes, of course there is, we just usually don't experience any except for maybe getting turned down for a date or possibly a job you were looking forward to. But I have discovered since the turn of the Internet and Social Media that at times you may feel this awful turn down called Rejection. Ah ha, now you understand. Good, because I am writing this and hoping that I am not alone.

I have been using the internet since I was 13. However when I was thirteen we didn't have Facebook or Twitter or any of the other smaller social sites that have been used in the last 10 years. So all we had back then were email and chat rooms and well if you were in one you usually had conversation with others and sometimes made friends or you were like me and only talked to the friends you had in real life because someone told you it was too dangerous to 'meet people online'. Essentially that saying wasn't to deter you from talking to people online, but only from meeting the people in actual real life. Still not always safe. TAKE PRECAUTIONS before doing so.

Anyway, skip forward a few years and I grow up to about 27 and when I go back to school I see some girls in class using MySpace. I create one and I add some people from my class and I fall in love with editing my page and expressing myself. I eventually add people from my past, meet some new people who have it and even go on a few dates because I was fairly new in town and single and I found it to be a great way to meet friends. And then I discover Facebook. Well I heard about it and kinda checked it out but I really liked MySpace, I actually miss it. But Facebook became popular with everyone, even businesses and well everyone had one, so why shouldn't I? 

Skip forward another 3 or 4 years and I am always checkin my page. Sharing pictures and Liking status' all the time. And yes I accepted people I didn't know, and I found this huge network of social sites and discovered other means of learning and I started looking up to someone. There are a few people that I learn from daily but this one person reminded me so much of me and I just knew that we were destined to be friends, and well since I made other friends online I particularly knew I would become friends with her. I at least expected her to be privy to my liking and to be nice to me. Maybe answer a question or 2, add me as a friend and hit Like on something I said or did, subscribe to my YouTube channel or check out my new website or this here blog since I asked her to do any one of the things because she was so important to everything I have started up in my life these past couple months. She never did any of it, and the response that I got was very negative and rude when I simply complimented her in the very most special way I have ever done anyone.

Now here I am. I am Rejected. I'm not sure where to go from here. Do I just keep being a avid fan of this persons or do I let her go completely. I guess in a way I feel weird that I even feel this because I don't KNOW this girl, and she definitely doesn't have a clue who I am. Maybe she's to totally busy to even be nice to someone when they are looking up her. Maybe she has too many, or a few better FANS. I hope that in my journey I don't come off the wrong way to anyone. I always try to be nice when commenting and returning the favor when Friending or Subscribing. I guess I just expected the same. Because of that I have this tare in my soul of rejection, and now I no longer know if I can  Follow this person. One thing I do know is I'm going to find me another person to admire. And well I guess with time maybe I'll learn her secret ways and have my own collection of fans, enough to where I can pick and choose to be nice too. But that's not me so I guess my perception of her wasn't exactly what I had in my mind.

Everyone please be considerate to other people you meet, you never know how it will make them feel.